"The meeting of two personalities is
like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is
any reaction, both are transformed."
-C.G. Jung
Rings have been exchanged as a symbol of the bond of
marriage for so long, and in so many different cultures,
that the origin of the practice is obscure. Certainly,
the circle of a ring represents undying love and the
continually renewed vows of the married couple. Circles
have long been archetypes for not only timelessness, but
also wholeness and homecoming. The circle also speaks to
the constant round of the heavens, as well as the
eternal return of the seasons, marked by cyclical ritual
and celebration.
In addition, the circle in rock art, sacred stone
arrays, and astrology represents both the Sun and the
Moon, themselves astrological and alchemical symbols for
the masculine and feminine aspects of the cosmos. This
correspondence with the Sun and Moon is emphasized by
the frequent practice of choosing gold for one betrothed
and silver for the other, as gold and silver are the
metals long associated with the Sun and Moon
respectively.
Rings in general have a deeply rooted magical
significance. Enchanted rings figure in many ancient
folk tales. Incantations and spells for the protection
of the wearer of rings are common motifs. Today, in
traditional religious ceremonies, Christian and
otherwise, the wedding rings are blessed by a minister
or priest, thus continuing the symbolic practice of
imbuing rings with protective powers.
The widespread tradition of embellishing the plain
gold or silver wedding band with various designs and
patterns has been known since at least 700 AD, in both
Pan-Hellenic and Celtic cultures. The quite ancient
symbol of the ouroboros, the serpent which consumes its
own tail, was a theme used for wedding rings made of
iron in Rome. The ouroboros itself is a symbol of the
oneness of creation and destruction in renewal, and the
life principle which timelessly feeds on its own
inspiration. It also represents the hope for a lifelong
marriage union that’s continually renewed.
Celtic wedding rings are often gorgeously decorated
with geometric knot work patterns that have a long
history and central place in Celtic art. These patterns
are strongly vegetative, suggesting tendrils and vines.
In fact, in much of Celtic art, including the famous
illuminated Bible, The Book of Kells, these Celtic Knots
emerge from or transform into vegetative foliage. The
beautiful symmetry of these woven patterns is often not
square, rigid, or overly formal, but organic, flowing,
and a stylized reflection of the curves and spirals
found in nature. Indeed, the Celtic Knots that embellish
wedding rings herald the ideas of spring, fertility, and
the eternal reawakening of the life force - all of which
bode well for a fruitful life partnership.
Wedding rings have most commonly been worn on the
third finger of the left hand. Speculation has it that
this is because the Romans believed that a vein ran
directly from this finger to the heart. An alternate
suggestion for this tradition is that each finger on the
hand is associated with a planet in the ancient systems
of astrology, and the ring finger of the left hand was
associated with the Sun. In this way, the wearing of a
wedding ring on that finger signifies the public
proclamation of the union in the daylight, in other
words, the conscious and clearly visible world of human
community. This correspondence is perhaps even more
strongly emphasized by the general tendency to craft
wedding rings out of gold, which is symbolically the
metal of the Sun throughout folk history and across
cultures.
Wedding rings capture the full range of the
ceremonial, symbolic, and communal aspects of marriage,
and preserve these many levels of significance as a
durable and constant reminder. Ancient yet contemporary,
steeped in lore and mystery yet almost universally
exchanged, wedding rings combine the art of the jeweler,
the reverence of the betrothed, and the beauty of love
and partnership in a single, resonant symbol. |